Hello, you.
I’m Lilith Ivy Thorne (and yes, that’s my real hair).
I’m a queer, pansexual, nonbinary, polyamorous, Deminatrix that loves to hear you beg for more. Nature resonates in my bones, and my approach to Dominance is that of a seductive siren, luring my submissives into the mesmerizing depths of sensational exploration.
As a Demme, I encourage my submissives to explore their edges through introspective negotiation, mindful communication, and firm guidance - our work extends its roots deeper as we build safety, trust, and comfort together. You will want to follow my lead, not simply because I demand it, but because you know that I have all my submissives’ best interests at the heart of this work.
In my personal life, I relish days spent immersed in the natural world, from river lounging with my dog to paddleboard exploring and day hikes (also with my dog). I love snuggling and training my pets (of many species), experimental baking, and fire spinning (if you’re good, maybe you’ll get a private performance). You’ll almost always find music or podcasts playing at my house, and I have a not-so-secret passion for organizing.
My academic background is rooted in intra/interpersonal dynamics and emotional processing, holding both a B.A. and an M.A. in psychology. I am currently in the process of attaining another M.A. in Somatic Counseling and becoming a certified Marriage and Family Therapist. I am invigorated and nourished by this work, and feel that one of my life callings is to support others in their own journey of building a life that they cherish.
I believe that kink and BDSM hold immense healing, as my own life has been transformed by the potent power of this work. The growth and interpersonal change that can unfurl through somatic connection and edge exploration has the potential to guide us towards our best selves. As we uncover the extent of our tolerance, we encounter a strength and resilience that reaches far beyond any singular session, shifting the ways that we show up in the world as a whole.
Through submission, we encounter our most resilient and trusting selves, and I hold that sacred space with high regard. Your submission is a gift that I cherish, respect, and nurture, and my goal is always to do right by our unique dynamic’s goals and progress.