Lilith Ivy Thorne
Titles: Demme, Deminatrix, Siren, Tease, Hedonist
Gender: Creature, Nonbinary
Pronouns: They/Them
Proclivity: Pansexual
What is Lilith?
Lilith Ivy Thorne is your siren Goddemme (my non-binary term for God/Goddess) dream incarnate, based out of the Northern California region (Sacramento, Bay Area). They are a tenacious tease with a lover’s intuition, focused on fostering fertile soil for you to flourish. They believe that a Dominant’s ultimate role is to uplift and empower, not simply control (though you will do what I say, or else), and they compose sessions that hone in on your particular preferences, needs, and healing.
Their passion for play, academic background in psychology, spiritual connection, and ongoing work in somatic (body-based) healing guide their mission. BDSM and kink exploration have played critical roles in Lilith’s own healing and reconnection, and they strive to hold dedicated space for your journey, whether that’s wading in altered states of consciousness or simply basking in sensations.
Lilith is a conduit for deep exploration and connection - to others, to self, and to something beyond.
Consensual Sensation
Collaborating on a scene is an essential aspect of deep exploration. Interests and boundaries must be tactfully negotiated and honored. We navigate your edges by anchoring in trust.
Loving Guidance
Only you know what you truly need, and it is the Demme’s duty to support and guide you along this journey with steadfast dedication to your wellbeing - deep care fertilizes deep growth.
Mindful Practice
Together, we will relish the myriad depths available in the present moment - from sensations and surrender to powerful healing and altered states of consciousness. The scene is a sacred space to be cherished.
Sacred Play
BDSM is adult play, and it can take on infinite forms, from sexual to spiritual. Stories, dynamics, and archetypal roles all play into scenes, whether we’re consciously aware of them or not.
Just a Taste of What's in Store...
See what it's like to work with Lilith and bask in sensory pleasure.